The Penny Post: Date Night… but Make It Financially Fabulous


Hi Reader!

You’ve probably been on a movie date, a dinner date, maybe even a blind date—but have you ever been on a money date?

If you’re in a partnership where you share expenses, having regular money dates can help you stay aligned as you work toward your future goals. They strengthen communication, prevent issues before they start, and yes—they can even be fun!

Steps to a Money Date

  • Set the vibe and clear distractions. You want both partners to be relaxed, ready, and focused. Whether it’s over dinner and drinks or curled up on the couch in sweats, make it work for you.
  • Get your budget. Whether it’s pen and paper, a spreadsheet, or a budgeting app, make sure you both have easy access to the information. The budget is a neutral third party. You are a team in this process, and each needs a chance to participate.
  • Review current and upcoming expenses. Acknowledge any changes needed and celebrate progress toward your goals. (My husband and I high-five after getting things back in order each month. Cheesy—but it works!)
  • Dream and plan. Talk about the future. What are your individual goals? What are your shared goals? Encourage each other and dream big.

Take a minute to schedule a money date with your partner and start a new way to connect with the one you love.

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Laura


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